By Michael Tolosa | June 30, 2006 - 7:42 am
Posted in Category: Work, Travel, Family

I’m in West Virginia now. I arrived with my dad and sister yesterday. My mom was already here. We’re spending the July 4 holiday at the house in Alderson. It feels good to be back. It’s very down to earth here. I’m not rushing around to be anywhere or do anything. There’s no stress. …Even though I do have to log in and do work today and Monday for Sprint. (There’s a big website update on Sunday.)

Speaking of work, I finally got the good news I’ve been waiting for. Should happen in August. It will be a long-overdue reward for my hard work the past six months. I’ve been with the company a total of 18 months, but it wasn’t until last December that I started taking it seriously and going to work with a strategy. Now it’s paying off.

I also interviewed a girl this week for a position on my team. She’s pretty awesome. We studied the same things at GMU. She knows one of my friends from Broadside (who was the News editor when I was the Photo editor). She recently worked for DC Style magazine. And is generally a cool person. I would love to have her on my team.

Enough about work…

When one is in West Virginia on the Fourth of July, there is only one place to be. Alderson. We have the biggest July 4 celebration in the state. (This is the only thing Alderson is known for, other than being the location of the prison Martha Stewart attended.) In fact, when I was in junior high, I marched in the July 4 parade as a drummer in the Alderson Junior High marching band. But on Tuesday, I’ll be photographing the July 4 events (including the parade) from the sidelines. I’ll be going for a photojournalistic, Americana look. Should be challenging and fun.

Also fun will be the DC Rollergirls’ carwash fundraiser at Hooters in Woodbridge in a couple weeks. …But that’s a story for another blog entry.

Oh, and I got my first speeding ticket yesterday. $116. Ouch.

By Michael Tolosa | June 22, 2006 - 7:29 pm
Posted in Category: Education, Improv

Last Saturday, I attended a couple improv comedy workshops at the Washington Improv Theater (WIT) in D.C. I signed up for a free intro workshop, as well as a public speaking workshop.

Being the very careful, reserved person that I am, I was pretty nervous about participating in the workshops. I didn’t want to look like a fool–especially in front of cool, young D.C. hipsters (of which the classes were filled). But I figured all of the students were in the same boat–and I would probably never see any of them again anyway. So I dove right in.

Rebecca–the instructor of the intro workshop–and her assistant were really quite wonderful. They were supportive, attentive, and entertaining. I never once got the feeling they weren’t enjoying themselves, or weren’t completely invested in the class and the students’ wellbeing. Their attitudes made the intro workshop an incredible amount of fun.

I got over my nervousness quickly, but had to fight another insecurity for the duration of the workshops. During the very first exercise, which was called the Name Game, we had to associate a physical action with our name. Rebecca started by crouching down and pounding the floor with both fists, as she said her name. We all repeated her actions in unison. When I crouched down, my recently purchased $200 jeans tore right along my crotch and backside. I couldn’t believe it. I wanted to scream in mortification, as well as laugh at the absurdity of it all. I thought my day of improv was instantly over as soon as it began. How big was the tear? Did I have something else to wear? Would I have to go all the way back to South Riding, then return to D.C.? Thankfully, I stealthily checked several times and determined that–due to its location–the tear was actually unnoticeable. As long as I remained standing. Of course, after the name game was finished, the next exercise involved us sitting on the floor.

I somehow managed to retain my dignity throughout the first workshop and actually thought I did pretty awesome throughout the exercises. I found it to be much more fluent and natural than I had expected. The hardest exercise was Freeze Tag, which involved us acting out completely random skits, the subjects of which changed as people tagged others out and replaced them in the skit. I found myself stuttering and not knowing what to say most of the time. But it was the last exercise, so I kept tagging in and forcing myself to participate. It was true trial by fire, and I suddenly gained tons of respect for the teachers, who do this in front of live audiences every weekend.

After a very long, uneventful lunch break (which involved me sitting on the couch in the lobby for one hour), I attended the second workshop on public speaking. It was taught by Topher, whose demeanor and appearance were humorous and entertaining in and of themselves. He had a more serious, lethargic tone–which was a big change from Rebecca’s vibrancy and childlike enthusiasm.

Much of this second workshop simply involved speaking in front of the other six or so students. Sometimes we talked about ridiculous subjects as if we were serious experts; other times we had to literally speak gibberish. Because of the room’s heat, I kind of tuned out half way through. By the time we reached the final exercise, I wasn’t even listening to the instructions and completely spaced on what we were supposed to be doing (taking on the mannerisms of a fictitious character, or something). I was kind of glad it was over. I didn’t learn anything, but I did have a bit of fun. [I also met Jaime, who’s interested in photography, local rock bands and roller derby! What are the odds?]

Bottom line is that I now want to sign up for the 8-week intro class (Foundations of Improv), but I’ll have to wait until Rebecca’s teaching it again. She rocks.

By Michael Tolosa | - 12:53 pm
Posted in Category: Media, Roller derby

I kinda miss LiveJournal, because I used to post so much random crap on there. For some reason, I don’t post as much on MySpace.

Well, it’s time for another completely random post…

I made it out to a DC Rollergirls recruitment party last Saturday night at Asylum in D.C. I was able to talk to a couple of girls about the league. Apparently, it’s just starting up, and they don’t expect to hold any bouts until next January. I’m hoping to get involved somehow (with their marketing and publicity) between now and then to help get the league up and running. Also, I want to check out some Charm City Rollergirl bouts in Baltimore this summer and start roller-skating myself a bit. I’ve been trying to locate roller rinks in the area. I think Manassas is the closest. Check out the skates I bought…

I took a break from reading Thank You for Smoking this week to read House of M. It’s good to see a quality Marvel story. Too bad I won’t be able to see what effects the events in HoM have on the Marvel Universe.

I signed up for tennis classes again. They start this Saturday. I can’t wait to be back on the court.

Kelli is getting tickets to see Steven Segal perform with his band Thunderbox at the Birchmere in Alexandria. That show is going to be so boss!

I’m trying to spend less money and spend more time at home. This is so I can get my financial and physical house in order. My goal in the coming weeks is to check off all the tasks in my Outlook tasks list. This involves cleaning out my file cabinet, posting stuff on Amazon/eBay, and finishing up my photography portfolio. I also want to read a lot and watch a bunch of the DVDs I own, but haven’t seen yet.

I’m sleepy. Time to go to bed.

By Michael Tolosa | June 11, 2006 - 10:51 am
Posted in Category: Photography, Sports

I photographed my first NoVA Majestics soccer match on Saturday. The game was held at Fairfax High School (a temporary home field of the team). The weather was amazingly mild, so it was an enjoyable 110-minute outdoor shoot. Click here for a small sampling of images.

By Michael Tolosa | June 8, 2006 - 10:52 pm
Posted in Category: Bars & Nightlife, Love & Dating, Friends, Travel

Well, first of all… I loved my trip to New York City this past weekend. I spent Saturday, Sunday, and Monday hanging out with all my NYC pals. I flew in Saturday afternoon, checked into my hotel in SoHo, then hung out with Romana all Saturday night.


First, we went to a cool bar called the Cub Room on Sullivan St. We drank $100 worth of Jamison n’ Cokes and Kettel One n’ Cranberries. Then we headed to MisShapes in the West Village. I totally dug MisShapes, because they were playing the music I’ve come to love from listening to the weekly MisShapes radio show online. It was a mix of modern dance tracks and retro 80’s dance tunes. Totally my style. I wanted to dance, but Romana wasn’t into the place at all. We left there and drank some more at The Spotted Pig on W. 11th St.


I spent all of Sunday morning with a wicked hangover, then headed to Brooklyn around 4:30 p.m. to hang out with Joel and Janna. We went to their church for the evening service. It was cool. Very traditional, but with a hip, urban congregation. Afterwards, I had dinner with Joel at Dumont Burgers. By the time I returned to my hotel, it started raining. Contrary to the weather forecast, this was the only time I saw rain during my three days in New York.


The next morning, I had to pack my crap up and check out of the hotel. Luckily, I’m so boss with my packing, that I only had to carry around a small leather tote bag. I took a cab to Romana’s place near Central Park, then left my bag there, so we (along with her dog Sasha) could go for a walk. We had a quick lunch at Jake’s Saloon on 10th Ave., then headed to Central Park. I’d never been there, so it was really cool to go. Since it was a Monday afternoon, it wasn’t crowded at all. We walked for a LONG time–much to the chagrin of Sasha. The best view we could find was from the castle. I took a couple pictures there. When we left the park, we stopped at Ocean Grill on Columbus Ave. for a more proper meal. This was the first time I had some actual New York cheesecake–and, oh, how good it was! I felt incredibly relaxed sitting at our table out on the sidewalk. The weather was perfect, and there was hardly anyone else around. It was so therapeutic to sit there in the middle of a Monday afternoon without worrying about having to be somewhere else or do anything. It was a true vacation (albeit short-lived). We walked back to her place, and I picked up my bag. We said goodbye, and I headed down to Radio City Music Hall to meet with Lisa.


Lisa came down from her office building, and we walked to a nearby deli to have a quick drink and catch up. That was fun, but unfortunately also short-lived. We bid adieu, then I proceeded to spend and hour and a half walking up and down 5th & 6th Ave., looking for a bookstore. There were countless high-end fashion stores, but not a single freakin’ bookstore in sight. I finally gave up on my quest, hopped into a cab and headed to LaGuardia Airport. Since I arrived way early for my flight, they were able to put me on an earlier flight (score!). So I got home an hour early, and that made me happy.


All in all, the entire trip was enjoyable. I love DC. But NY is okay, too.